Relationships With Technology
While I may not like to always admit it, I know I do not have the most healthy relationship with technology. As a matter of fact, technology is probably the cause of at least 50% of my problems. Technology causes me extreme amounts of stress when it does not work properly; it has also caused communication problems with people in my life multiple times. People think using technology is more convenient; however, technology does not send texts in the tone you are speaking, or it can't show how sincere you are. I am extremely grateful for the technology I have access to, and I wouldn't be able to be writing this blog while sitting at Starbucks right now without it; however, I think the overuse of technology has had a great effect on our society, myself included.
Technology is an essential part of my life, though. One of the big reasons I was able to go so far away to school was because of the technology I had. If I hadn't been able to communicate with my parents every day or see my dogs, I would have never had the courage to move away from home. Additionally, I think if I didn't have technology, I would not have stayed in touch with as many people from high school as I did. While sometimes I do find myself aimlessly scrolling and getting distracted by my technology when I have work to do, I would be lost without it. That might not be a good thing. I have found that especially since I came to college, I have had this almost reliance on technology. If I didn't have my computer, I wouldn't be able to complete all my assignments, and if I didn't have my phone, I would not be able to communicate with anyone. Personally, I feel like I am stuck in a way; I don't want to be so reliant on my technology, but it is hard not to be in the world we live in.
I do not think I am the only person who struggles with this. I have witnessed it with my friends, family, and neighbors. My younger cousin can not sit still or be quiet at a dinner table if he does not have his iPad, and his parents do not filter what he can watch. He has access to all of YouTube, and he is definitely watching some videos that are going to have a negative effect on how his mind shapes. For some parents, I feel like they have turned technology into a parenting technique, or they just use it to take a break. They let their kids have it so they are quiet, and the parents get a break; however, with what some kids are watching, in a way parents are letting technology parent their children for them.
It is also scary to think about the fact that what we post on the internet can stay there forever. Something you may think is funny when you are in high school might not be funny when your future employer finds it in a background check. I think this will be incredibly hurtful to the younger generations because they are getting cell phones at such a young age, and with that they are getting access to social media. It's dangerous to have access to social media at such a young age, not just because of the content that could be on there, but because what you post can hurt your future. Personally, I am always very careful about what I post on the internet because it is something I was always made aware of the consequences of. When you are applying for a job, it is so easy for your future boss to search you up on Instagram. I have seen it happen all the time with influencers online; they gain fame and start to become successful. Then an inappropriate video of them from 5 years prior resurfaces on the internet, and they lose all of those fans almost immediately.
I would like to say that I will change and try to limit my technology use; however, I know I would be lying. I think I should definitely start to be more conscious of what I am using my technology for and change those habits.